It is possible to determine a partner's readiness for intimacy not only by the condition of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to know what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man woke up easily and from other often not so immediate signs.
Non-verbal cues
Willingly or not, a man from external manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Non-verbal messages from a partner will help to understand his situation and his readiness for sexual intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks to his desire. This "reflection" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
In communication, a man who receives passion will try to get closer, to reduce the distance from the object of desire and this action is performed automatically without knowing it. In addition, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, to make physical contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an attack without following the rules of dignity.
The contact will be rather simple, light, without obsession, but the excitement that a man experiences during such contact is clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and some nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record external manifestations in a man's behavior. At the moment of excitement, he tries to straighten his shoulders, to pull on his stomach, to present his figure in a favorable light. Often, out of excitement, the partner starts licking his lips, grasping his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
A man's arousal signs, which manifest themselves non-verbally, can be reduced to a short list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - to move a chair, open a door, help carry something or serve.
- seeks to reduce the distance in communication.
- During a conversation, a man tries to make light physical contact.
- a man, burning with passion for a woman, does his best to be alone more often.
Positions of a man
The need to show sexual attraction in indirect ways was born in an age of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude towards the relevant process was taboo by moral codes and ecclesiastical standards. Both men and women had to prove to their partner their willingness to take action without fear of publicity and reproach. In such cases non-verbal cues made it possible to learn about tastes and desires.
To want a woman and not show it is wrong, from the point of view of a normal man. Therefore, a potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show his interest in the object of desire through sexual gestures and postures.
The man shows most of the gestures and postures at the level of reflex without realizing their sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly show interest, others are more hidden and read only by a girl who is ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently starts giving an "alpha male". Indicates readiness for sexual intercourse with confident postures and shows a high tone of physical condition of his body. This is usually seen in the following events:
- the man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders.
- tries to pull the stomach deeper.
- If a man is standing, his legs are apart, showing great stability and strong position.
- It is also important to monitor the position of the socks of men's shoes, if they are interested in any attractive person then they will turn to this woman.
- If a man is sitting in a chair, he will inadvertently spread his legs, as if showing his genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary gestures and gestures of a man who wants to understand a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during routing and mating games, which shows the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man begins to straighten his clothes and hair in the hope of attracting the woman's attention with his appearance. Instead of angular and heavy walking, he moves fast, like an athlete, while correcting the defects of the shape, straightens and removes his stomach. A glow appears in the eyes, the skin on the face tightens automatically and the bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and much more desirable to a friend.
Now such a gesture is rarely used, and many have already forgotten it, but even fifty years ago, the thumbs placed behind a belt of trousers meant a rude, ostentatious action against a woman, aimed at showing off their genitals.
The delay in the man's gaze on the object of his lust says a lot. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, it shows his enthusiasm and willingness for closer contact.
The position of the hands on the hips shows the woman the natural superiority of a man over other opponents, his strength and power, and hence his readiness to reproduce.
Interestingly, women are more sensitive to the manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a potential partner, while a man may not understand the sympathy that the girl showed him a long time ago.
Physical events
The state of arousal in a man is manifested not only by the erection of the penis, but also by other, often not so obvious, normal points.
A man, subject to passion, often straightens the details of his clothes, loosens the bond, which initially literally strangles him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the tone of voice may change to lower, the gaze blurs, the pulse speeds up, blood pressure jumps. The characteristics of the behavior during this period are very difficult to hide from external attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman catches such points immediately and consciously notes.
A man can be aroused not only by direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by ideological thoughts about intimacy. The oncoming wave of passion captures the partner and his behavior changes depending on temperament and hormonal levels. General signs of sexual intensity are the physiological indicators mentioned above, which, in terms of symptoms, look like a stressful situation. In addition to rapid breathing and heart rate, changes in voice and pressure, increased muscle tone occurs, pupils dilate and increased salivation is observed.
During an erection, a clear fluid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a type of lubricant that allows you to penetrate a woman's vagina without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of a drop.
Fat comes from the Cooper glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has many functions:
- removes urine residues in the urethra.
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina.
- The viscous composition of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for the release of sperm.
- The lubricant allows you to rub during sexual intercourse without injuring sensitive skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body and can range from a small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of expelling this fluid is to provide a conducive environment for the conception of a child. Neutralization of the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is the erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma and the size of the organ increases significantly in length and width.
The change in the size of the penis in an upright position from the usual depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been observed that a small penis enlarges more noticeably than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, due to which its penetration into the vagina of the woman is ensured, the man is already fully ready for union and the passion swells even more.
When penetrating a woman's breasts, a man's body becomes even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. Heart rate rises, muscle tension reaches its limit, blood pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to contain the passion.
The culmination of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. Pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate, while pushing through the seminal fluid of the urethra filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm can make sharp sounds and moans. Sperm volume depends on the composition of the individual and the duration of abstinence.